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ForeverAloneDude

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Anybody else sometimes wonder, what’s the point of all this?
« on: November 19, 2017, 03:58:32 PM »
Hello everyone. I've been lurking this board for the last couple months. it seems to be the ONLY place on the internet that has true, meaningful discussion on plastic surgery unlike other boards which I shall not name.

Anyways, back to my subject...

All this research. All this hard work to slog and make money. And there is little guarantee that it will work. And the cycle where I’m not doing what I should be when it comes to making money etc and just obsessing desperately of if there is even hope for my below average skull and face.

And the concern that even if major changes are even possible for me, I'll hit a major road block where surgeons don't want to do risky procedures on me.

And then my height could cock block me etc (I'm 5'4"). I'm lets say hypothetically I'm ok looking. 5-6/10 on the rating scale post plastic surgeries and my height isn't an issue, then when I'm all done with this stuff I'll be 30 freaking years old with no experience on how to talk to women romantically, and downhill yet again. (I'm 21 right now)

What is even the point?

There are guys and girls who are 13 years old who get these romantic experiences with ease. Dating just works for them.

This sucks. Why couldn’t everyone be born at the same attractiveness where interpersonal connections would matter in dating.

One thing I know for a fact is that I for one will NEVER have kids. I just don't want to put them through the pain and suffering that I have been through myself. Years of  tormenting, bullying, and isolation.

They all tell us from a young age. "boy, its going to get better."

No its not going to get better. And no, the good looking guys and girls will not have it worse when they get older. Its a lie.

I'm 21 now. My goal currently is to do everything I can non surgically looks wise and then put every effort when I'm not at the gym or applying acne creams (haha) to make as much money as I can for the next 3-4 years.

Man, even if I was tall but unattractive at least I could have a shot at other things such as football, basketball, etc in school. At least I'd be taken more seriously at work, etc. But here I am. Absolute bottom of the barrel genetics wise.

Honestly if nothing changes by the time I'm 30 or at max 35, I don't know if I can take life anymore. But at least I know at that point that I tried my best with the hand I was dealt with to go with some of the most extreme measures and do the best I can.

Sorry for my rant. I’ve been feeling incredibly down for the last 6 months. I hope I don't get banned for this, especially being that this part of the forum is for emotional support.
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Re: Anybody else sometimes wonder, what’s the point of all this?
« Reply #1 on: November 19, 2017, 04:32:57 PM »
The prime focus here really isn't so much 'plastic surgery'. Rather jaw surgery in realm of maxillo-facial 'bone cutting' to balance out the jaws. You might 'need' max fax first before plastic surgeries or to set the ground work for them. But there is no way to tell without visual information. Also, no 'guarantees' for surgery as all surgery is with some risk. But if you can narrow down which things need to be done first, at least a multi surgery journey will be progressive.

Clearly, you seem interested in better aesthetics. So, check out the aesthetic section of board too.
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Re: Anybody else sometimes wonder, what’s the point of all this?
« Reply #2 on: November 19, 2017, 05:01:28 PM »
Yes. I'm looking at the aesthetics section of the board too.

After all, I haven't seen anywhere else except for this board when it comes to big surgeries like modified lefort iii. There seems to be only one user online who has it done for aesthetics.

I'm also looking at jaw surgery, but for aesthetics. Even though the goals aren't the same as some other users, the understanding and research will also be the same.

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Re: Anybody else sometimes wonder, what’s the point of all this?
« Reply #3 on: December 04, 2017, 03:15:57 AM »
sorry for my english first.
i was searching this surgeries for 7-8 years and im 21 too, especially 2 year ago ,when i was bracesfree, it was rough times for me . i thought braces can fix this issue and i fucking had braces with random ortho who i rush, results is such a disappointment. 3-4month later teeths find new arrangement.
Am i so ugly? im sure no, some finds(especially uglier guys than me) find me attractive, im white(sorry but it matters), had blonde nice long hair but norwood 3(still get compliments but not like old days), big forehead which i start to love. I could rush with random surgeon still but i need earn big amount of money I cant give my familys 1year budget to normal surgeon, i must choose best of them, money is not fucking important but time is, 2nd phase braces must be last. (probably at 26-27years old ill start ps journey depend of my relationships).

aesthetics is important but not enough for relationships when you are 20+. If you cant make money what you looks(tbh i dont want this, iwant 7-8/10 but with normal jobs ,not modelling) it dont matter 7/10 you are. My uncle had 10/10 body (it works at hard jobs which need strength, 6/7/10 face but, my dad is below avarage and had better wife,family and life style. Sorry but at 21 you are the last stages that your apperance can work solo.

My last appointment was 1 years ago. So ortho say i can go for it but its such a painful journey. Imust remove 3 wisdom and 2 or 4 premolar teeth. Ill live with 24 teeth.(i had 31 teeth but i cant use my lower front teeths when biting hard things, because of their crowd)

Just focus other things in life. I dont know ur appearance but its not problem for people (at least i was top %1 school in my country,  lots of my friends dont live for sex so school is fun for me.)

You can send me pictures or xrays , i have  nice knowledge about this problems and emotional states.