bobbit - i admire your idealism, as in theory that is what we would wish, doctors giong to the Limit of what is doable, maybe hard, but doable, before it gets risky.
my experience is that doctors will much prefer to give you a 50% solution, lets say giving you 7mm advancement, even though the 75% solution which would transform your life is not that much harder.
ist a question of incentives - he is not incentivesed to take slightly more risk, because most patients wont even care or know enough to care. we represent maybe 5% of Patients. most are just happy to get the Operation, and could not even tell you how much mm movement they got or will get.
and for that reason many doctors won't even engage into the discussions we are having, at least not the european ones.
where i live most People have no idea of