Agreed. I'm not disputing anything, Kavan, mentioned in his former post, he was quite correct in that people need to do their own research. However, I just don't have that luxury, and I'm sure i can't be the only one. All I'm asking if for people to be more open minded and understanding.
I wish I could have the ability to look through various academic papers and process the information as it would enable me to take full advantage of the more knowledgable posters on here instead of being a passive learner, having to save their various links, articles and academic papers for when I feel more 'awake' which isn't a given throughout the week, in order for me to learn more about the various aspects to do with orthognathic surgery.
What I said wasn't a slight on you, Kavan. You do a great job on answering peoples' queries on here and dedicating your time to help others, more often than not, you go the extra mile in that regard, it's much appreciated on my end. All i'm saying is that telling people to do their own research can be pointless for those who can't. Anyway, labelling people who's medical record and personal issues you are unaware off, that causes them cognitive issues and brushing it off as 'ENTITLEMENT' is extremely ignorant.
If you're still using CPAP for your apnea, we can assume that it's providing you with some relief for your symptons, then you're in a more fortunate position than me and others out there. There will be people like myself who have tried both CPAP + APAP and unfortunately had no relief, which may be the difference between us being able to conduct our own research.
I fail to see the correlation in being able to afford Jaw surgery and being able to analyse and throughly look at various academic papers enabling you to make more of an informed decision. I don't want to delve too much into my personal health issues, but when NHS doctors are at a loss at what to do, having exhausted all possible avenues, it's left me with only one alternative, the private route. This whole process is consuming my entire being, all of my savings and annual earnings, towards rectifying the issue, I would hardly call that having things handed to me on a 'silver platter', but to each their own.
Well, what I said wasn't meant to be a slight on you either or anyone on this thread. But I do find in general--and not to personalize this--a correlation with those who have a lot of finances for these surgeries AND who 'expect' others to inform them in total about them BUT who don't want to do a lot of their own research, as having some entitlement issues. I've been on boards long enough to see a correlation.
I do my best to explain things so they can be understood. But still, that requires the other person to have a level of education, logic or basic capacity to understand as a BASIS for me to explain. Explanations and subsequent understanding of them can only go as far as what ever the base line knowledge level someone has and I'm most certainly not going to fill in many GAPS or give remedial tutorials if that seems to be the problem.
Well, for those who can't do their own research and who BALK at the suggestion of doing their own research, no matter what their reasons, as long as they don't expect someone else should do it FOR them and spoon feed it to them. We can all pitch in somewhat to help fill in some gaps. But if a person truly wants to learn (who is NOT a fast learner), it will take them longer and they will need to put in the effort.
ETA: What is this all about anyway. I told Dogmatix to do some of his own research. I even found a research paper FOR him and told him he can't expect a doctor to sit down and tutor him because a doc can turn down a patient if they need excessive question time and much more so than others. That's all true. Besides, he got a lot of good advice on here as to WHY he should be happy he doesn't need a multi-segment lefort and why it's done and not done. So, he got ample info on here. BUt if he wants to 'understand' stuff like exactly how they do the surgery, he will have to do his OWN research. That is VERY TRUE.
This was going fine until you got on defining the act of doing what one can do to educate one's SELF, ie. one's own research as a LUXURY or something that was too much of a BURDEN to do for some. Luxury or burden-- what ever--IF someone wants to know something on a more advanced level, then they've gotta do what they need to do to UN-CONFUSE themselves and advance their present level of understanding which is usually RESEARCH.
I wasn't referring to you or him when I mentioned 'entitelment' issues. But there are people on this board who don't do any of their own research, have tons of money to pursue a lot of these surgeries JUST for COSMETICS and who BALK when told to do their own research. So, not everyone has entitlement issues but I do see enough of that here. Not on this string. But I do see it around.
It's very TRUE that if one wants to increase their level of understanding and raise it to a higher level, one does have to hunker down to some self study and not all what is true is palatable to all people for what ever reason.