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General Category => General Chat => Topic started by: trigeminalneuralgia on August 24, 2012, 07:16:09 AM
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like would you date someone with a major jaw issue,
would this change after a successful surgery
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bone deformities really dont bug me, im used to them
i think on a superficial level i couldn't go through with having sex with an overweight person. maybe if i ever become average weight :/
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i think on a superficial level i couldn't go through with having sex with an overweight person. maybe if i ever become average weight :/
Huh?
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I'm also way more critical of myself than others. I wouldn't have any problem dating someone with jaw issues or other things of that kind. Weight issues don't bother me either, especially within the range that most people fall. I think I'd be more hesitant to date someone without any physical "faults," in fact, because I'd be more self-conscious and aware of my own faults. That's not something I like about myself, though, and I'm trying to get over it (current boyfriend has been genetically blessed - and he doesn't care at all about my jaw issues).
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That's a good point, ducky. I used to have some pretty attractive friends and I always compared myself to them. Very bad for my ego...Damn genetics
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So there's this other member of the crossfit gym I go to, and she has a lower jaw deficiency and probably needs upper/lower jaw surgery, genioplasty would make a BIG difference for her. But of all the women there (and there are some really friendly/beautiful women that train there) I find that I'm most attracted to her. The reason? She is a REALLY cool person to talk to! Honestly I don't see her as "defective" or "different", just somebody I'd like to know better.
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I'm also way more critical of myself than others. I wouldn't have any problem dating someone with jaw issues or other things of that kind. Weight issues don't bother me either, especially within the range that most people fall. I think I'd be more hesitant to date someone without any physical "faults," in fact, because I'd be more self-conscious and aware of my own faults. That's not something I like about myself, though, and I'm trying to get over it (current boyfriend has been genetically blessed - and he doesn't care at all about my jaw issues).
I totally agree, I think it's just that I'm more confident around somebody who has obvious faults. Not to the point where I want to date Igor but just dating a really really conventionally "hot" person would leave me feeling inadequate. Though that's more of a commentary on my own self confidence than anything haha.