i find the prospect really daunting but the advice and info here can be reassuring. how supportive are your friends/other half of you doing the surgery thing?
from your last pic it looks like your underbite is bit more pronounced than in the earlier ones. but is that just a result of lining up your mid lines? when your jaws relax back into their usual positions does the underbite decrease?
Mark, good questions. Yes, the more noticeable underbite is from lining up my midlines, which brings my chin center. It shows how much asymmetry is really going on. When my jaws are in normal position, it's more of an edge to edge bite/ very slight underbite.
As for support, I haven't told many people yet. My sister is very supportive. She used this orthodontist and loves him. Her teeth were much more crooked than mine and they're beautiful now. She was pretty symmetric to begin with though.
My husband... he thinks I look fine and that my crookedness is part of my charm. lol. Mostly I think he's nervous about surgery because of possible complications, and would rather have me skip it. However, he also aware that my bite has caused serious issues like worsening TMJ and even nerve damage. If I do have surgery, he'll be supportive.
I haven't told hardly any friends about surgery... when I mention even braces, they act surprised. Most told me they think my teeth are pretty straight. My closest friend guessed I had braces when I was younger. It kind of goes to show you how much people really notice... probably less than we think.