making the proper diagnosis is really f**king difficult though
very hard to determine if the abnormal growth is going to affect your jaw(s) exclusively or your entire face
no need to beat yourself up
i would have loved to know this when i was young and intervention was possible. but at our stage, treatment plan wont change regardless of our origin of growth.
if abnormal growth is diagnosed the best time for surgery (i was told) is 6/7, well before the on-set of puberty. this rarely happens unless you born with half your jaw or something nuts.
after that surgery can conflict with normal development and can be a huge headache for doctors. it's just easier and cheaper to wait it out and perform surgery when the growing is done.
i think the technology and knowledge exists to successfully manage surgery during growth periods, i just dont think there is a huge incentive among doctors.