Oh my, sounds like I have a ways to go! Lol. Well where I live you need to have a referral. And I also think they only do surgery on extreme cases. It sucks royally, but I am willing to travel and I will probably get better quality of service that route anyways. I am going to schedule several consultations and just go from there. You are so sweet and I am grateful for your help and support. I also dont have any deformity that others notice. You and I are just going to be better versions of ourselves and I cant wait to just get it over with. I agree with you 100% that it is about ourselves and our happiness!