You're right, they don't "reflect much about the doctor" because I am not approaching this from a doctor's perspective; rather, from a patient's. Is that so radical on a forum like this?
You are basically saying the OP, who is not a doctor, has asked a question about a topic he doesn't know the ins and outs of because he is not a doctor, and that got him blacklisted. You seem to think that is a reasonable way of dealing with non-medical laypeople when you are a doctor who operates on and derives all of his income from... non-medical laypeople.
From my perspective, the doctor lacked the emotional intelligence to make sense of the sentiments behind his question (conflicting information heard from other doctors and on forums) without taking it as a personal affront. By extension, other conclusions could be drawn about his character, supplemented by a recent Google review from an actual patient that describes him ignoring a patient when things went wrong.
As for "sour grapes". Let me say that I got myself into bad situations purely because I didn't refuse the things that pushy doctors forcefully made it a requirement for me to get along with other surgeries, using similarly "logical" arguments that you espouse here with about as much vigour. I felt like I had no choice, due to that line of thinking that I no longer adopt. And so my subsequent criticism of a pickly doctor is "sour grapes", in your opinion.
Also, a few weeks ago, I posted 2 results that I personally find to be poor from Alfaro. I attributed these to a lack of finesse and skill (assembly line approach to surgery), so my criticism is a lot more material than you state. Moreover, it was in fact based on the statements and pictorial evidence HE put out there on his own site.
For everything you've said, you neglect the human (you might say "irrational") feelings that accompany making such decisions, along with the trepidation people have when they've had a bad experience. These aspects trump diagrams and logic when someone decides to make that final bank transfer. People are not perfect and they do not mind read accurately, and that is also the case with you as much as it is with me.
The doctor probably doesn't want or need 'know it all know nothing' patients who question things in the absence of knowing the basics. Not saying the OP is that but if he adapts your way of thinking, he probably will be on his way of being rejected by other doctors or maybe will find one who won't alter his nose during the max surgery and will wind up with however it would look via displacements of just the max surgery and no displacements aimed at countering some unfavorable displacements of the nose that CAN occur during a max surgery. But be my guest if you wish to support his decision not to get it reved during his max surgery.
Hell, be my guest in also contending that that SWELLING is so bad DURING a surgery, that the doctor could not possibly perform a rhino during it. Add your 'personal opinion' that it's 'unsafe' to perform a rhino during a max surgery 'because' it compromises blood supply.
Your insights don't reflect much about the doctor at all. Let's see, the ability to perform something FAST and perform it well, reflects SKILL. But you don't differentiate skill from 'rushing'. These surgery 'vets' you speak of, would those be people who do it wrong the first time and have a pattern of doing wrong multiple times who want to use the same thinking process they used to do it wrong to be a back seat driver to tell the doctor what to do? Doctors who know how to do things right don't like patients like that and why should they.Good doctors deserve good patients and have every right to pick and choose which ones are the most appropriate candidates for what they do. Your insights reflect more of a SOUR GRAPES stance more than much about the doctor.