I had a hard time at one point accepting just how long recovery is.
I've never been 'down' physically. When I heard I would be back to work in a month, I internalized that as I would be good to go in a month. When I went back to work after a month I was not, NOT, good to go. I was struggling to talk, eat and be discomfort free. Hell, I was in pain. I ran across someone who had the surgery and they told me to 'give it 9 months'. That was NOT what I wanted to hear and I was really regretting the surgery. I was also dead set against any surgery ever again.....
Things change....