I thank you all for the suggestion and the unexpected positivity about the appearence..
my view: width grew properly, projection stunted or has been crushed.
Why are you even considering jaw surgery??
I considered it basically for the flatness thatI didn't have before the orthodontic treatment ,and didn't make me happy and which I personally find unpleasant. And this is the esthetic reason, the other is functional and based on sleep problems (thus fatigue).
The last time I used my retainer I didn't sleep well again, (insomnia started with the ortho treat, I never had before)
I'm almost sure the insomnia is caused by the teeth beeing not enough forward.. because if I leave my toungue move my teeth for a while (months) I sleep again the whole night..
and if I try to wear it after that time, the retainer seems not to fit my teeth because of their projection, so I'm sure there is a relation (I can feel it really pushes them backward).
And it makes sense also because I had a class II maloclusion and they actually crushed my upper teeth arch backward to fit the jaw.
Today I'm talking with my ortho, hoping well..