Dude, seriously... you don't look "uglyASF." You're a handsome guy, actually, and I'm not saying that just to be nice. Can there be improvements? Yes. But remember that you're likely to be your own worst critic. I assure you people aren't going to look at you and think something out of the ordinary.
You mentioned not being able to afford surgery right now. Have you heard of Dr. Mike Mew? Prolonged correct use of the tongue can actually undo some of the "damage" from mouth breathing. He gives a simple jingle to remember what you should do, and it takes practice: Lips together, teeth together, tongue on the roof of your mouth (basically as though you were perpetually about to say the letter "n." A little push outward and upward could help speed along the results, as this method could take months or years to really notice.
Also, chew HARD gum, which helps with the development of facial muscles and jaws. I recommend mastic gum (found in mediterranean food shops) or Falim gun (not quite as hard) which I think is from Turkey. American chewing gums are FAR, FAR too soft to make any difference.
This is not going to give you what surgery would give you, but it can get you started toward modest improvements and prevention of further
problems.
As for the balding, what have you tried? There are lots of ways to slow or stop that... biotin, Rogaine, Nizoral, Finasteride, lasers, etc.
Good luck!
