I'm looking for advice for my situation, i'll keep the story short.
I've been in orthodontic treatment for 1 year and 7 months, in preparation for DJS. I have recessed jaws and the surgical plan sketch has movements around 5,5mm forward for maxilla and 8mm forward for the mandible. Not a small discrepancy.
All well and such, until my orthodontist gave me elastics on my canines. He said
"If all goes well, we might not need surgery anymore.", i think he expected relief but i nearly jumped out of my seat out of shock, because that means he wants to camouflage the problem to some extent. I said i want surgery either way. He said: "You can still get the surgery,
but the movements will be less extreme.", meaning he gave me these elastics to pull back my upper front teeth (i have gaps between my canines and premolars, and an overjet of about (very roughly) 5 mm).
I want the optimal orthodontic preparation for DJS, which i believe doesn't involve pulling back teeth but rather making space for maximal jaw movements. I lost trust in my orthodontist and i mailed him saying i dont want a camouflage treatment, he disregarded my reasoning and simply replied with one line "you can still get jaw surgery". I cannot reach my orthodontist by mail or by phone.
I managed to get my surgeon (lets call him doc B.) to call me and he said i should trust his expertise but he also said he agrees to go non surgical if that's what the orthodontist plans to do. Now you have to keep in mind that this surgeon gave me a "rant" at our appointment about how jaw surgery is a functional and not an aesthetic surgery so he's not keen on doing it for me. However i've been to other surgeons (doc S. and doc D..q, both 'famous' Belgian surgeons) and they said it's a 100% DJS case.
My questions are:
1. Am i in the wrong that pulling back teeth is not a good idea if i want DJS either way? I believe the surgeon should decide how much to move the jaws, and the orthodontist shouldn't be trying to fix the overjet in surgical cases.
2. What do i do in my situation?
I've been to another orthodontist (and have other orthodontists appointments booked) for a second opinion, but also to maybe continue with another orthodontist. She spewed absolute nonsense and suggested additional camouflage orthodontistry. At the moment it's hard to get an appointment with a well-known orthodontist, they have a backlog due to covid and a waiting list for new patients...
If doc B. doesn't want to do the surgery i'd continue with doc S. Someone suggested contacting doc S. and asking him for an orthodontist recommendation, but he is so busy and hard to reach that i don't think i'd get a reply from him. However he's the only surgeon i've been to that did a perfect analysis of me in 2 minutes (flat cheekbones, both recessed jaws, even mentioned my posture..).
I could also stay with my orthodontist and try to reason with him that he won't pull back my upper front teeth.
How do i make this clear to him that i don't want my teeth pulled back and that i want DJS either way? A lot of orthodontists think they're saviors because they "solve" (read: camouflage) a bite non surgically. His reasoning is that i can still get DJS but he doesn't see that he's not optimally preparing me in terms of orthodontics. My next appointment with him is in 2 weeks. I also haven't worn the elastics he gave me.
I've attached a picture of my current orthodontic setup, i don't know if it's clear enough, i can provide other pictures aswell.
https://imgur.com/a/xtbgbxv