"Yeah but is a feminie treatment on a man necessarily a bad thing?..."
Not at all, IMO. Men usually go for more chiseled, sharpened and edgy look, while feminine features tend to more concentrate on curvy and rounded lines. However, this doesn't mean that such approaches should be reserved based on sex. It's pretty much per-case depended, which means dependency on initial face structure. At the end it's about harmony, ratios and balance and if this means acquiring feminine features while being a male, well then be it.