I rhink men look best with a 1:1 midface ratio, while women looks better in a slightly shorter midface ratio, however I can see why some men posted here can pull off having a long midface, the have other stuff going on, for example Ryan Gosling has an overall robusticity which gives him points in sexyness, notice that often guys who have long midfaces and are often considered sexy tend to only fall under that category: sexy, but you can't say for example that they are what you'd call "pretty", guys like Brad Pitt though are both, he has robust well developed bones all over while still mainting ideal "pretty" ratios.
I guess what I'm trying to say that if you are a guy with a long midface but still have other well developed bones (strong brows, jaws, maxilla, cheekbones) you can pull it off easy.