He might not have BDD but he does have some kind of 'issue' that concern his motivations to look like 'Superman' and also his FLOUNDERING in indecision about this for many years. He's been on RS for like 6 years deliberating this and asking doctors what procedures will kick up the Superman face. Think I may have seen his posts on MMH too where he was getting surgery 'soon'. Now this, with all the implants made and he's still floundering. I took a look at his 'Lookism' posts where the reveal is the fantasy/expectation that this surgery will result in a stream of hot promiscuous chicks falling at his feet wanting one night stands with him and with no work or charm or personality on his part to offer them.
Not passing judgment on the fantasy because what guy (other than another super MM) wouldn't want to look like Cavill and what guy, handsome or homely, wouldn't want hot chicks falling at their feet. But when THAT is the GOAL of having the surgery, it's called an 'UNREALISTIC EXPECTATION'. So the fantasy is normal. But the expectation of surgery turning that fantasy into a reality is ABNORMAL.
My take is that he wants to transform from 'incel' to 'in and out cell' but the surgery isn't going to help him pump it up and pump it up real good if he can't pump it up at all without surgery. I take that he thinks that ONLY a nice face is THE ticket to a high lay count of hot promiscuous chicks. So, after his surgery, not only should he wear his cape to the clubs but he might also have to sport a T shirt that says; 'Got Viagra' or 'Got a sex manual'.
I don't think he should cancel though. I think he should go through with it. No flies on Y when Y accommodates a request that the implants be (some of) the PARTS a MM has. Y still has some restraint and won't go overboard. As long as Y didn't tell him 'Oh yes, you will look just like Cavill and this will increase your lay count dramatically.'
So, maybe not BDD. But I think you may have picked up on something in the venue that veers from reality.
To be fair, what you refer to as "floundering" over the years (since I started posting on RS way back in 2013) is simply the result of a pretty standard combination of factors that would make pursuing (and eventually having) such a dramatic surgery a long, drawn-out process for almost anyone: finding the time to take off from work/school (I am in graduate school and also have a job with an all-over-the-place schedule), securing the finances, deciding on a surgeon, etc. In all honesty, I'm glad it has taken me 6+ years to finally schedule the surgery, because over the past half decade, my face (especially my midface) has started exhibiting some very obvious early signs of aging -- e.g., nasolabial folds, worsening eyelid retraction, a generally more "tired" look, etc. If I had actually gotten the surgery done when I originally wanted to 6+ years ago, I probably wouldn't have been a candidate for a midface lift back then. Now, I at least have the opportunity to have this procedure done concurrently with the implant surgery so that I can at least partially reverse some of these signs of aging.
Another reason I took so long to finally pull the trigger on getting the surgery is because I had a hard time settling on a surgeon for a year or two. For a while, I was leaning towards Eppley, but there's just something that seems so... off about many of his surgical outcomes. It's like he has the technical skill of a surgeon, but he lacks the aesthetic eye. On the other hand, Yaremchuk might have had a few somewhat unnatural-looking outcomes over the years, but overall, he seems to have a more tasteful aesthetic sensibility than Eppley.
Say what you want about my goals and motives to become a so-called "hookup guy" at bars and clubs, but there really IS such a thing as guys who are so good-looking that women all but offer themselves up to them in those kinds of social venues, especially when alcohol is involved. I'm not saying these surgeries are going to turn me into one of those guys (in fact, I'm pretty sure they won't, unless Dr. Y is some sort of miracle-worker). Simply visit a busy bar/club on a Friday or Saturday night and actively observe which kinds of guys tend to get the most unprovoked, low-/no-effort attention from girls.
BTW, I don't where all this talk about me wearing a cape is coming from. When it came to getting inspiration for the type of "look" I'd like to have, I simply selected photos of an actor who happened to play the character of Superman in a couple movies. Even if he hadn't been cast as Superman, I still would've considered him an aesthetic "ideal" to emulate.
BTW, Dr. Y didn't promise to make me look just like Henry Cavill or to increase my lay count. During the consultation appointment, he just said, "I can't make you look *just* like that guy, but we'll see how close we can get you." I just hope that he designed the implants with the imperative in mind to ensure that regardless of how close he gets to making me "look" like Henry Cavill, the outcome is still generally attractive according to most peoples' tastes.