You could post the images to Imgur and then delete the album a few days later. That's what I typically do. That way people here get to see it but most of the internet and any lurking surgeons don't.
As to the functional issues, my eyelids stopped closing at one point. I think that was neurological but my eyelids do seem to work a bit harder than most to close and they dry more easily. Allergies is a large factor too I think. That's why I consulted an oculoplastic surgeon, I wanted to know if there was a functional reason to touch my rim/cheeks. He was honest and said no, not in my case my eyes aren't that bad. But he said it would help with the dryness and strain and I'd look better. He agreed for mental health it could be important in 10 years. For me that says, revisit in 10 years lol. I don't think that was what he was hoping for.
